When I think back on the cruel men who have come in and out of my life, I often hear people say, it wasn't your fault. You can't blame yourself because he was a this, that or the other. And I agree, it is not anyone's fault when they find themselves in an abusive relationship. You cannot change how a person treats you, however you can take the ultimate responsibility for staying and continuing to take it.
If you find yourself in one of these situations, if your scared. If you're being threatened, if the cops are at your door to arrest you because he has manipulated the situation to fit his needs, know you can leave, you can run, you can walk out with nothing or everything, material things don't matter, and even a short period of time lost in limbo is worth finding a safe footing for you to move forward. ~Kandi
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