So I truely love Starbucks, I feel that it is the equivilant to heroine seeping through my veins each morning. My recent addiction, Pumpkin Spice Latte. mmmm mm good. But besides the addicting flavor I realy enjoy their little spurts of Wisdom they have plastered on the back of the cup. Some times this wisdon is just plain stupid and sometimes like today it is just what I need to remind me what reality is all about. Plus this morning it just fit what I have been going through, not just lately but perpetually throughout my life. So here it is Starbucks tip #160 The Way I See It.
Sixty-nine percent of all problems in relationships are unsolvable. They are about differences in personality or needs. They never change. When you choose someone, you have inherited the problems you will have for the next 50 years. Unfortunately, we pick people who are not as perfect as we are, so relationships work if you have wound up with perpetual problems you can learn to live with.
~Dr. John Gottman